Breaking News: does stress hook you?
What are you doing reading this? Don't you have anything better to do? Are you using up every last nanosecond of your bathroom break at work?
Perhaps…
Do you suffer from “busy life syndrome”: Do you have time for everything and in the end for nothing? Do you see every day as a deadline? Do you panic at the feeling of wasting time when you're not doing "something useful"?
If you already know what's going on, we have your diagnosis: Welcome to the club of stress addicts.
And before you tell us…
“But come on, how can I be a stress addict when, if it were up to me, I’d be watching life go by from a sun lounger in Bali? What are you putting in your creams that makes you say weirder things every day…?”
Stress is addictive... very addictive
This studied and proven skeptic-proof.
Being busy, to the point that stress becomes our shadow, is a more absorbing vice than the TikTok algorithm on a hungover Sunday.
Because?
Well, if you ask the experts, they'll explain in all sorts of fancy jargon that when you throw yourself headlong into a stressful situation, your body releases a rush of hormones (cortisol aka the stress hormone, adrenaline, dopamine…) that make you feel like a rocket (not a mommy) and turn you into a Terminator in survival mode:
However, if you talk about it with your colleagues one afternoon over beers while complaining about this emotional rollercoaster that is life, they'll give you more down-to-earth explanations:
- Because the world is moving faster and faster.
- Because that endless stress-pleasure loop is an emotional reinforcer More intermittent than your ex's toxicity... and just as addictive.
- Because we have been taught that we are worth as much as the things we do: Overtime, weekend hobbies, projects outside of working hours, a micro-influencer social life…
- Because, even being fully aware of this… we don't lower the standards we set for ourselves.
The thousand and one (fucking) faces of living stressed 24/7
The list of consequences of prolonged stress is very loooong (and here size does matter): heart (and face) problems, digestive issues, headaches, drops in your immune system, memory, concentration, energy, increased risk of anxiety, depression, burnout, self-sabotage…
And, be careful, because the procession isn't always internal.
Stress also affects your skin. No matter how many creams you put on your face: dark circles under the eyes that reach the floor, Premature wrinkles, treacherous acne, and the sloooong recovery of scars from former pimples…
Why would we make you read all this way to list every possible downside of stress like a pharmaceutical leaflet, as if you hadn't already experienced them firsthand, and then goodbye?
How to say “Sayonara, Baby” to stress addiction
- The very first thing to do is realize that we are hooked. to be stressed day in and day out. Is that a clichéd piece of advice? Yes, why? And just because of that it's going to be less #fuckingreal? No, why?
- Ignore those super tips that sell you a new hobby as the only solution All your stress... and things that will also stress you out: yoga/mindfulness/crochet/baking/lettering... Yes, they have more benefits than Actimel, but if you're already living a constant "there aren't enough hours in the day" feeling, EVEN LESS. It's MA S.
- The procrastination thing, not so bad. Would it be so bad to spend some time on the sofa watching La Temptation Island Instead of doing the dishes, why not pack a lunchbox for the next day? Give yourself the chance to to put the responsibilities of daily life into "off" mode to then pick them up with even more enthusiasm.
- The whole resolutions thing, nice and easy. It's great that you want to get ripped at the gym, read more, meditate, eat better, spend less time on social media Or whatever comes up. But setting expectations sky high or beating yourself up when they're not met... not so much.
- Come on, If stress reigns in your life, then declare the independent republic of self-care. It's about time reclaim your time to enjoy it loving you for who you are and not just for what you do.

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