The Sex Education we didn't have
¿Recuerdas aquel día en el que el profe dio clase de educación sexual? Él seguro que sí.
El ritual solía ser: llegaba el pobre docente, anunciaba la suspensión temporal de las clases ordinarias y decía que ese día se iba a hablar de penes, vaginas, condones y píldoras.
The girls, in heat and hormonal, were warming up. A laugh over there, that she has put a condom on the banana there, that she has said “testicles” out loud, that yes hohoho, that yes hahaha...
And the commotion usually culminated with some silly question like, "Do my sperm run out if I masturbate a lot?" or “what does semen taste like, professor?”… and with general chaos.
Sex, little.
Education, none.
What we learned... we learned from a magazine stolen from PRIVATe, or by going blind watching the encrypted Canal+, or because a colleague on the bus/your cousin/someone older in the neighborhood...told you stories to keep you awake.
The sexual education of our adolescence has always been deficient... or nonexistent .
we have a problem ( SEXUAL )
Time to fix it? Based on the success of "Sex Education", can be. The Netflix series (hit of the season after "The Squid Game") has a simple premise: a school where students who need answers about sex and, since they can't find them, turn to a classmate - the son of a sexologist - for the relevant sexological/psychological therapy.
What's cool about the series is that, beyond hackneyed 'problematic' things like "getting pregnant"; The series is, above all, about emotional education and empathy. To understand the human codes that guide us in bed. To listen to our partner, learn about them and enjoy with them. Something elementary, ok, but that not everyone knows because of infused science.
Because let's remember that the mantras that you had learned before starting to have relationships were of the type "no gagging, no blowjob" or that a good fuck implies cumming (mistake #1) and at the same time (and I have a hard time matching even my socks) to be successful.
EDUCATION IS, FIRST OF ALL, ENJOYING AND TALKING MORE
«We should not feel ashamed for having sexual desires. You make sex sound scary, but it doesn't have to be. It can be fun, it can be beautiful, and it can teach you things about yourself and your body. "You should teach us how to do it safely, not abstain, because that doesn't work."
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Unwanted teenage pregnancies increase . In the United States there is a clear correlation between preaching abstinence and more pregnancies.
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We sow the ground for future toxic relationships . Yes: it is very studied how early education prevents it.
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It makes us more prejudiced. Abstinence or silence imposes a moral burden, a taboo on sex. It is easier to understand the diversity of preferences, tastes and orientations when you learn them from a young age (and not when they become a sinful and dark vice).
- And we enjoy less . Especially women (the clitoris continues to be an organ as overlooked and mythologized as the G-spot and in general all sex revolves around them), but also men: since no one has ever talked to us about anything else, we tend to sota- horse-king in bed.
It is difficult to fully enjoy something if you only know 10% of what it offers you.
We have to call things by their name. No bananas, cucumbers and papayas... but talk about cocks, pussies, real bodies, real sex and FUCKING... in CONDITIONS (the best conditions)
And speak openly about everything (from 👏🏽 -TO 👏🏽- DO 👏🏽) from a young age. Because it is the only way to know each other, to respect each other and to understand sex not as a taboo, but as something natural and wonderful.
It is a battle to be undertaken now. Sexual education, a core subject and free erection ✊
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