How to sneak into their DMs so they can make you feel good... and little things

Well, well…

Do you practice trawling instead of harpoon fishing in nets to see what you catch?

Statistics will surely work for you in the end (science is cool) but if you really want them to pay attention to you among so many fire emojis and "Where are you? I'm sending you a "uber"...

This week we're sharing a couple of tricks to sneak into their DMs and get welcomed with open arms (and whatever else comes up).

Step #1. Makeover your profile before taking action 🤳

Your profile = that fine line that separates the first impression ending in a “who is that man?”… from a “not with you, bug”.

Selfies with more filters than a Starbucks, photos with gym bro poses staring at the camera that are anything but casual, the 87,970 OnlyFans profiles you follow…

🤔 We don't judge, but your crush might. So apply a little bit of digital Marie Kondo and clean up anything that you don't think will scare off the initial flirting.

Step #2. Note what suits you 🔎

A a little bit of stalking It always helps to personalize a good opening line: you can look at the music playlists they follow on Spotify, the type of restaurants they frequent by checking the location of those food photos they upload to Instagram, the type of bars and brands they follow, …

Step #3. Warm-up likes ❤️‍🔥

Just like you wouldn't go to a Zumba class or practice yoga poses without stretching... You're not going to practice the Olympic Shooting By DM without a little bit of warm-up before throwing the first chip.

For that purpose, Likes are like a wink, wink 😜 virtual and anticipate your intentions.

So choose wisely where you put them and use them sparingly (don't go scrolling all the way back to the pre-pandemic era; the idea is to sneak into their notifications, not their block list.)

Step #4. Writing… the DM of their (wet) dreams 💌

You probably already know there are no golden rules… just a few guidelines:

Don't get stuck in a perpetual "typing..." state. According to studies, It takes us guys a whopping 15 minutes to write the first DM. I bet it doesn't take you that long to order your first beer from the bartender, does it? Exactly.

To break the ice, Never make suggestive comments, dick pics, or construction worker catcalls on a construction site.It's one thing to drool over every selfie she posts… and another to come across as a creep. At least in the first message, keep up appearances.

If you're not contributing, step aside. Draw on the common interests you've been stalking to get the conversation flowing.
○If he likes the mountains… ask him what the coolest place he's ever climbed was… and where you're going together next.
○Is she streaming a Netflix marathon on her stories? Recommend another movie or series in a similar style…
○Do you like the sound of that song I put in the reels? You should listen to my phone number.

Joking around always guarantees a smooth entry and, if necessary, dignified rejections. Have you seen the latest meme of Temptation IslandAre you team Shakira or team Piqué? Pizza with or without pineapple? You'll guarantee interest and you'll never regret writing it.

Step #5. Invite action… offline

It's time to face the music, get out of chat mode and take action in the flesh (mmm🥵).

After all the hard work that has brought you to this final step, you've probably come up with a handful of excuses for that first one “Shall we have something to drink?”

Again, at first... let it seem casual: a beer, walking the dog or having a drink.

That you end up on a speed date like on First Dates or with your new roommate from Cuffing Season, It's secondary.

If after online chatting you feel some emotions and palpitations…

The magic of this new digital cupid that is your Instagram is in meeting people who make you blush (and other things too), accumulating anecdotes for the LOLs and enjoying it while you go around spreading love throughout the world (to yourself first).

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